[Mental Health Tips] Self-Compassion, starting from today

[心理健康小貼士] 自我關懷,從今天開始

 

你有好好關懷自己嗎?

大學生活忙得讓人喘不過氣?課業、社交、兼職一股腦全都湧上來,讓你感覺生活就像永遠趕不完的作業。你有沒有停下來想過:

我有好好照顧自己嗎?

大多數大學生不會把“自我關愛”放在首位,總覺得這是件“奢侈品”,等忙完再說。但事實上,忽視自我關愛只會讓你陷入更大的壓力旋渦。別擔心,我們一起來看看,如何在忙碌的生活中,找到屬於自己的平衡點。

你最近關愛自己了嗎?快來試試這個小測驗!

– 你每天至少有 7-8 小時的睡眠嗎?
– 你有時間做自己喜歡的事情,比如看劇、聽音樂或運動嗎?
– 你最近有和朋友出去放鬆一下嗎?
– 你有時候會覺得學業壓力大到無法應付嗎?

如果你有超過一半的問題回答是“沒有”,那可能是時候好好照顧自己了!
別擔心,接下來的簡單步驟可以幫助你重獲生活的平衡。

小紅的故事:壓力中的成長與醒悟

小紅是大學二年級學生,課業壓力讓她喘不過氣。為了不辜負家人的期望,她幾乎把所有時間都投入到學業和兼職中,卻慢慢失去了生活的樂趣。更糟的是,她發現自己根本不喜歡現在所讀的這個專業,但又不敢停下來。

隨著小紅的身心狀況變差,她逐漸意識到自己要開始調整生活節奏,學會關愛自己。她設定了規律的作息時間,給自己安排了休閒的時光,重新找到對生活的熱情。最後,她不僅學會了管理壓力,還開始思考自己的興趣和未來發展方向。

 5 個簡單步驟,讓自我關愛成為你生活的一部分

  1.  每天小小的休息,讓大腦重啟
    每學習 1 小時,就給自己 10 分鐘的休息,站起來活動一下,聽聽音樂或者看看窗外。這樣做不僅讓你感覺更放鬆,還能提高學習效率。別忘了,身體和大腦都需要喘口氣!
  2.  設定睡眠時間,告別熬夜
    夜晚的你是不是經常熬夜寫報告或刷劇?試試設一個固定的睡覺時間,幫助身體調整作息。充足的睡眠會讓你白天感覺更有活力,不再昏昏欲睡。
  3. 和朋友聊聊天,放鬆一下
    當你感到壓力重重時,不要一個人硬扛,約上朋友聊聊心事或者出去走走。人際支持是最好的壓力緩解劑,聊天喝杯奶茶也能讓心情好很多。
  4. 嘗試學點新東西,激發熱情
    無論是學會烹飪一道簡單的菜,還是學習一門新技能,給自己設定一個小目標。這不僅讓你感受到成就感,還能讓生活變得更有趣。
  5. 別忘了每天鼓勵自己
    每晚睡前,花幾分鐘回顧一下今天的成就,無論大大小小都可以。寫下一件讓你感覺驕傲的事情,比如按時完成了作業,或者堅持了運動,這會讓你感覺自己每天都在進步。

每日自我關懷練習

自我關愛不僅僅是一個抽象的概念,它可以通過日常的小行動具體實踐。為了幫助你每天進行自我關懷,你可以參考這個小日曆,每天根據當天的指引,進行小小的自我照顧練習。

這些簡單的練習既實用又易於操作,能幫助你在忙碌的生活中重新找回內心的平衡。每天一點點的小行動,將帶來長期的正向變化。

結語:自我關懷,從今天開始

你值得被關愛,最重要的是,這份關愛應該從你自己開始。大學生活固然忙碌,但你可以通過這些簡單的步驟,讓自己更加快樂和有動力。從今天開始,試試每天關愛自己一點點,你會發現,生活可以比想像中更有趣、更充實。

 

Have you been taking good care of yourself? Is college life so busy that you can hardly breathe? With academics, social life, and part-time jobs all piling up, does life feel like an endless assignment? Have you ever stopped to think:

Am I taking good care of myself?

Most college students don’t prioritise “self-care,” often seeing it as a “luxury” to be considered later. But in reality, neglecting self-care only plunges you into a deeper stress vortex. Don’t worry, let’s explore how to find your balance in a busy life.

Have you been caring for yourself lately?

Take a simple quiz to see if you’ve been taking good care of yourself recently:

  • Do you get at least 7-8 hours of sleep every day?
  • Do you have time to do things you enjoy, like watching shows, listening to music, or exercising?
  • Have you gone out with friends to relax recently?
  • Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by academic pressure?

If you answered “no” to more than half of these questions, it might be time to take better care of yourself. Don’t worry, the following simple steps can help you regain balance in life.

Stella’s Story: Growth and Awakening Amidst Stress

Stella is a sophomore whose academic pressure is overwhelming. To meet her family’s expectations, she devotes almost all her time to studies and part-time jobs, gradually losing the joy of life. Worse, she realises she doesn’t even like her current major but is afraid to stop.

As Stella’s physical and mental health deteriorates, she gradually realises she needs to adjust her life rhythm and learn to care for herself. She sets a regular schedule, allocates leisure time for herself, and rediscovers her passion for life. In the end, she not only learns to manage stress but also begins to think about her interests and future development.

5 Simple Steps to Make Self-Care a Part of Your Life

  1. Take small breaks every day to reboot your brain. For every hour of study, give yourself a 10-minute break to move around, listen to music, or look out the window. This not only makes you feel more relaxed but also improves learning efficiency. Don’t forget, both your body and brain need a breather!
  2. Set a sleep schedule and say goodbye to staying up late Do you often stay up late writing reports or binge-watching shows? Try setting a fixed bedtime to help your body adjust. Adequate sleep will make you feel more energetic during the day, no longer drowsy.
  3. Chat with friends and relax When you feel overwhelmed, don’t bear it alone. Invite friends to chat or go for a walk. Social support is the best stress reliever, and chatting over a cup of milk tea can greatly improve your mood.
  4. Try learning something new to spark passion. Whether it’s learning to cook a simple dish or acquiring a new skill, set a small goal for yourself. This not only gives you a sense of achievement but also makes life more interesting.
  5. Don’t forget to encourage yourself every day. Spend a few minutes before bed reviewing today’s achievements, no matter how big or small. Write down something that made you proud, like completing an assignment on time or sticking to exercise. This will make you feel like you’re progressing every day.

Daily Self-Care Practice

Self-care is not just an abstract concept; it can be practice through small daily actions. To help you practice self-care every day, you can refer to this small calendar and follow the daily guidance for a little self-care exercise. These simple exercises are practical and easy to implement, helping you regain inner balance in a busy life. Small daily actions will bring long-term positive changes.

Conclusion: Self-Care Starts Today

You deserve to be cared for, and most importantly, this care should start with yourself. College life is undoubtedly busy, but you can make yourself happier and more motivated through these simple steps. Starting today, try caring for yourself a little each day, and you’ll find that life can be more interesting and fulfilling than you imagined.

Self Care

Quote from : https://actionforhappiness.org/

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